In a great house where obedience is worshipped like a god, three brothers must choose: bow to the family that is devouring them, or break it and be free.

Why this book

When Ba Jin wrote this in 1931, arranged marriages and all-powerful patriarchs still ruled millions of homes. His novel became a torch for the May Fourth generation—young Chinese who longed to tear the old system down. Millions read their own suffering in these brothers.

The Story

The story unfolds behind the tall gates of the Gao family in Chengdu, a household of dozens ruled by one man: the grandfather, Master Gao. His word is law, so every child, wife, and servant lives to obey. But three young brothers feel the walls closing in.

When Master Gao entered a room, every conversation died and heads bowed low. He alone decided who married, who studied, who was punished. So love, ambition, and freedom all bent before one old man's pride, and no one dared to lift his eyes.

The eldest brother, Juexin, once loved his gentle cousin Mei with his whole heart. But when their grandfather forbade the match and chose Juexin's bride by drawing lots, Juexin bowed his head and obeyed. Therefore he buried his love and learned to swallow every wish.

Juexin married the stranger chosen for him, a kind woman named Ruijue, and slowly grew to cherish her. Yet Mei was married far away, then widowed young and left hollow. So the eldest brother carried two wounded women in his heart and called it duty.

The two younger brothers refused that fate. Juemin, thoughtful and steady, and Juehui, the fiery youngest, devoured forbidden magazines full of new ideas—freedom, equality, the right to choose one's own life. Therefore the old house began to feel less like a home than a prison.

Their cousin Qin dreamed too. A spirited girl, she longed to study beside men and even to cut her long hair short—a shocking act of freedom. Juemin loved her for it. Therefore, in Qin, the brothers glimpsed the new woman the old world feared.

Juehui loved someone the family would never allow: Mingfeng, a bondmaid who had served the household since childhood. In stolen moments by the garden lake she confessed she loved him too. But she knew a servant girl could never marry a young master, so she asked for nothing.

Outside the gates, students marched against warlords and old customs, and Juehui joined them, thrilled. But when word reached Master Gao, the grandfather was furious and locked Juehui inside the compound. Therefore the boy raged against bars he could see and bars he could not.

Locked inside, Juehui poured his anger into a student magazine, writing against tyranny in the home and the nation. But words on paper could not yet open the gates. So his hope and his helplessness grew together, side by side.

Then Mei came back, widowed and frail, to visit the household. She met Ruijue, and the two women—one who married Juexin, one who lost him—became tender friends. But grief had already hollowed Mei, and soon illness took her. So Juexin watched his first love die, helpless.

Meanwhile the grandfather struck a bargain: he would hand a household maid to his old friend Feng Leshan, a lecherous man of sixty, as a concubine. He chose Mingfeng. Therefore the girl Juehui loved was to be given away like a gift.

Terrified, Mingfeng searched for Juehui to beg him to save her. But he was buried in his writing and, not knowing, sent her away with a distracted word. So on the night before she was to be given, Mingfeng walked into the cold lake and drowned, calling his name.

When Juehui learned the truth, grief and guilt tore through him. He understood that his own hesitation, and the family's cruelty together, had killed her. Therefore his hatred of the old system hardened into something unbreakable—he would never again bow quietly to it.

Soon the grandfather aimed the same power at Juemin, arranging a marriage he did not want. But this time the brothers fought back: Juemin fled and hid, while Juehui defended him openly. Therefore, worn down at last, the old man relented—the first crack in his absolute rule.

Not long after, Master Gao fell ill and died. With him gone, the family's grown sons revealed their true faces—greedy, hypocritical uncles who squabbled over money and clung to superstition. So the household that pretended to be virtuous rotted openly from within.

The uncles kept concubines and gambled while preaching virtue to the young. One even blamed a household ghost for their troubles, hiring priests to chase spirits through the halls. So superstition and hypocrisy rushed to fill the space the grandfather's fist had left.

Ruijue, Juexin's wife, was now heavily pregnant. But the elders declared that a birth in the house, so soon after the old man's death, would summon a blood disaster upon his corpse. Therefore they ordered the pregnant woman moved outside the city walls to give birth alone.

Juexin, ever obedient, could not refuse. So Ruijue was sent to a damp house beyond the walls. There her labor went terribly wrong, and she cried out for her husband. But the door was barred by custom, and Juexin stood outside, unable to enter as she died.

Only then, with two loves dead because he obeyed, did Juexin finally see the truth. His lifelong submission had not kept the peace—it had helped the system kill. Therefore, broken but at last awake, he no longer stood in his youngest brother's way.

Juehui made his choice: he would leave the family forever and seek the new world he had only read about. But he needed money and passage, and quietly, Juexin helped him. So one dawn Juehui prepared to slip through the gates toward a boat bound for Shanghai.

On his last night, Juehui embraced Juemin and thanked Juexin, the brother who had taught him what obedience costs. They wept, knowing he might never return. But all three understood that one of them, at least, had to escape the cage.

As the boat carried him down the river, Juehui did not look back at the great house that had raised and wounded him. Ahead lay a city, a future, an uncertain freedom. Therefore the water bore one young man out of the old world and toward his own.

What it means

On feast days the Gao mansion glittered—lanterns, opera, banquets, laughter. But behind the silk and ceremony, wives wept in silence, servants were beaten, and the young were sold into marriages like livestock. So the beautiful house wore its cruelty as decoration.

Sometimes, when the courtyard slept, the two met beneath a blossoming plum tree. Juehui spoke of a world where they could marry freely; Mingfeng only smiled, afraid to hope. But class and custom stood between them like a wall neither could climb.

Ba Jin's message is fierce and clear: a family that demands obedience above love does not protect its children—it consumes them. The gentle who submit, like Juexin, become instruments of the very cruelty that wounds them. Only those who dare to break free can truly live.

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