The Story
Kim Jiyoung sometimes adopts the voices and mannerisms of women she knows, apparently unaware that anything has changed. Because these episodes expose memories and grievances she would not ordinarily express, Jung Daehyun grows increasingly alarmed, uncertain whether he is witnessing illness, possession, or emotions suppressed beyond endurance.
As Kim Jiyoung’s behavior worsens, Jung Daehyun brings her to a psychiatrist. Yet diagnosis alone cannot explain what has happened, so the story rewinds through her childhood, education, career, marriage, and motherhood, assembling the countless pressures that have gradually stripped away her confidence, independence, and sense of self.
Kim Jiyoung is born the second daughter in a family still expected to produce a male heir. Sustained pressure continues until Jiyoung's younger brother arrives, teaching the household to regard his birth as fulfillment while the girls absorb the quieter message that their existence never completely satisfied inherited expectations.
The pattern predates Kim Jiyoung’s birth. As a girl, Jiyoung's mother gives up further schooling and works so her brothers can pursue their education, converting her own prospects into theirs. Her sacrifice is treated as practical family duty, which teaches her that a woman’s ambitions are naturally expendable.
That lesson follows Jiyoung's mother into adulthood, where pressure from her in-laws pushes her to keep bearing children until Jiyoung's younger brother is born. Although she becomes conscious of the custom’s injustice, she also favors the long-awaited boy, repeating within her household the hierarchy that once consumed her future.
Because Jiyoung's younger brother is treated as the family’s precious son, food, space, resources, and attention bend toward him. Kim Jiyoung and her sister learn to yield without anyone naming the arrangement discriminatory. Its ordinariness matters: privilege appears not as cruelty, but as the unquestioned distribution of daily comfort.
Kim Jiyoung succeeds at school, yet achievement cannot protect her from male entitlement. When a stranger follows her home from cram school, her father blames her clothing and behavior instead of the stalker. The danger passes, but the accusation remains, teaching her that men’s misconduct will become her responsibility.
When Kim Jiyoung enters the job market, qualifications prove less decisive than gender. Male classmates, including weaker candidates, receive encouragement, introductions, and opportunities more readily. Consequently, her search becomes longer and more discouraging, exposing how supposedly neutral competition begins only after men have already been granted an invisible advantage.
Kim Jiyoung eventually secures a marketing position and discovers work she values. A senior female colleague recognizes her ability, mentors her, and tries to improve conditions for women. Yet individual solidarity cannot remove the company’s structural barriers, so professional survival still demands more effort while promising women less advancement.
Kim Jiyoung marries Jung Daehyun, and their relationship is generally affectionate and stable. That relative kindness makes the surrounding inequality harder to isolate: their marriage does not resemble open tyranny, yet familiar expectations about family, work, and domestic responsibility quietly establish whose life will be altered when sacrifice becomes necessary.
Pressure soon arrives from Jung Daehyun’s family, who want the couple to have a child and specifically hope for a son. Kim Jiyoung must absorb their demands while Jung Daehyun fails to defend her. His silence effectively joins the pressure, showing how passivity can preserve injustice as efficiently as open agreement.
After conflict, Jung Daehyun apologizes and promises greater support. Yet he reasons that parenthood will happen eventually and describes his future domestic contribution as helping Kim Jiyoung. The language betrays the unchanged arrangement: childcare remains fundamentally her responsibility, while anything he contributes can still be counted as generosity.
Kim Jiyoung understands what pregnancy may cost because she has watched women disappear from professional paths built through years of effort. Motherhood threatens not merely inconvenience but the erasure of her income, workplace identity, and independence. Her fear is therefore practical: love for a child cannot protect her from institutional consequences.
Kim Jiyoung becomes pregnant, leaves the job she worked hard to obtain, and gives birth to Jiyoung's daughter. What is presented socially as a natural transition turns her into a full-time housewife, while the professional sacrifices behind that change remain largely invisible because custom has already assigned them to mothers.
Caring for Jiyoung's daughter consumes Kim Jiyoung’s days, narrowing her adult world to repetitive labor that produces no salary or public recognition. Financial dependence deepens her isolation, while exhaustion is treated as ordinary maternal duty. Because her work is unpaid, outsiders can imagine that she is doing nothing at all.
During a rare break in a park, Kim Jiyoung overhears office workers mocking mothers like her as freeloading parasites who live on their husbands’ earnings. Their contempt erases the career she surrendered and the labor filling every day, reducing her entire existence to a coffee purchased with supposedly unearned money.
Kim Jiyoung receives a similar dismissal from a doctor, who suggests that women of her generation have easier lives and should not feel so overwhelmed. Because even professional authority interprets progress as proof that suffering has vanished, her real distress is transformed into ingratitude instead of being recognized as injury.
The humiliations accumulate until Kim Jiyoung’s suppressed experience breaks through in other voices. Speaking as Jiyoung's mother, she expresses grievances that neither generation could safely deliver as itself. Her dissociation makes literal the novel’s central loss: a woman can voice inherited pain only after her own identity has fractured.
Jung Daehyun can no longer treat Kim Jiyoung’s episodes as temporary eccentricities, so he takes her for psychiatric care. The return to the opening now carries the weight of her history: what first looked inexplicable emerges as the endpoint of repeated concessions, exclusions, accusations, and unrecognized labor.
Unnamed male psychiatrist treats Kim Jiyoung and interprets her condition with apparent compassion, connecting her dissociation to postpartum depression and lifelong sexism. His account recognizes that no single incident caused the collapse. Instead, ordinary institutions repeatedly demanded adaptation from her until adaptation itself became psychologically impossible.
Unnamed male psychiatrist credits his wife with sharpening his awareness of women’s unequal burdens. Yet his own household reveals the limits of that awareness: he remains disengaged from parenting, leaving her to manage responsibilities and frustration that he can describe clearly only because he does not fully share them.
When his wife resents his distance from family labor, Unnamed male psychiatrist concedes that her complaint is justified. However, agreement produces no commitment to behave differently. His self-image remains intact because admitting unfairness feels like moral progress, even while the practical arrangement requiring her sacrifice continues unchanged.
When a pregnant employee resigns from his clinic, Unnamed male psychiatrist encounters the same conflict between women’s working lives and motherhood that shaped Kim Jiyoung’s career. His response is not institutional reform. Instead, he decides that his next employee should be unmarried, transferring the cost of inconvenience onto another woman.
The novel closes with Unnamed male psychiatrist reproducing the discrimination he believes he understands, while Kim Jiyoung remains in treatment. No cure restores her voice, career, or independence. By withholding her recovery and ending on his hiring decision, the story shows the machinery that injured her continuing without interruption.
What it means
Kim Jiyoung’s case allows Unnamed male psychiatrist to explain structural sexism intelligently, but his private life exposes sympathy without transformation. The novel’s warning lies in that gap: injustice survives not only through ignorance or malice, but through people who recognize the pattern abstractly while preserving it whenever change would cost them.
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